every day i take the elevator and look at the familiar but unnamed colleagues in the elevator. i only get a brief impression on the occasion of passing the time. there is also a slight impression that i can take care of their actions every day. some preliminary judgments and understandings.
in fact, the details are very important. you can show your personal qualities through gestures. in the elevator's small space of about one square meter, the same is the corner of the social kaleidoscope. people of different walks of life, different ways of thinking, and their own personal thoughts, the more they experience, the more they feel the mystery and interest.
analyzing the behavior of the occupants can probably be summarized as several types of people:
first, helpful type: this type of person is warm and generous. every time he enters the elevator, he can always hold the door for others or press the door open button to prevent the elevator door from closing automatically. he is facing the person who is passing through the door and waiting for everyone. after coming in, they press the close button, then ask everyone to go to several floors, press the floors lightly, and always act as the driver until they reach their destination.
second, do not care type: this type of person holds a silent attitude, he entered the elevator, expressionless, heedless, never cared about others, their own to find a favorable terrain, i do not know what to think. i don't care about the floors i've arrived at. i'm probably aware that i've probably found people on the same floor, so he doesn't have to worry about it. it's also a smart move.
third, selfishness: this type of person arrives at the elevator and is eager to enter the elevator. you will be on the floor you want to reach, and then you will not go inside when you are near the gate. after he was able to stand inside, and his mouth kept yelling: "the elevator is full, and it is impossible to come." especially he himself exaggerated than anyone else, because of his existence, the elevator was not full. however, some people are rejected. iv. busy type: you can often see some people answering the phone in the elevator. sometimes i do not know the reason for the phone, or the reason why the communication signal is too good. even the other party's speech on the phone is heard very clearly. making a phone call is like broadcasting in the elevator. you can think of people in the elevator who are so quiet crowded. there are still people talking non-stop next to you. it feels weird.
fifth, individual performance type: this category is mostly women, like to give a brief evaluation of wearing and other passengers wearing the elevator. for example, if you see someone you know, you will suddenly attack and say, "yeah! buy new clothes again." "this dress looks good." "and with a new hairstyle, where is the hair?" "your child what kind of school did you study and how did you learn? "those topics like this will attract all elevator passengers to pay attention to her, and i think everyone will have their own ideas to distinguish whether it is sincere praise or hypocrisy.
six, humorous type: this type is mostly men, like joking in the elevator, looking for fun, to someone as an "attack" target, or on the elevator as an opportunity for emergencies, quick response, quick thinking. it can also bring you a moment of happiness and joy.
seventh, aunt flattering type: this type of good and leadership chilling, in the elevator did not forget to show themselves, with the leadership sets close to or report about the work, people feel the atmosphere is serious, very uncomfortable.
among the above, the ones i don’t like most are selfishness and flattery, because such people are mostly “little people”. one lacks generosity, one is due to personal character, and the other is self-cultivation. problem. the ancients said: "the gentleman's connection is light and water." people's get along is always showing a kind of mutual humility and tolerance, care and care, reflecting the true qualities of a person. unlike “little people,” the word “little” stands in the head and the eyes are short-sighted, they are supposed to take an elevator. they also need to distinguish between a high and a low. why then? as i myself, i never dared to say that i had no selfish thoughts, but
in public, i think we must have a minimum morality. all along, they have been modelled on helping others and asking themselves to do what they can. therefore, whenever a friend comes to me and works for me, i always depend on the situation. if i have the ability to do so, i must promise and do my best. if the ability is not enough, i will seek truth from facts to explain or give my friends better suggestions. in my opinion, a friend asks you and recognizes you. he thinks that you can give help and he will only speak. if you think about who will not encounter difficulties? if the hardships of others are your hands, why not help him, because you also need the help of friends or others?
be small and big, take others' actions and constantly correct personal behavior. others are just a mirror. at the same time you find out, they also show their own deficiencies. at this time, they also have a deep understanding: intrinsic cultivation is the key to the eternal charm of a person.